IS IT RIGHT TO APOLOGIZE OR FORGIVE SOMEONE?

IS IT RIGHT TO  APOLOGIZE OR FORGIVE SOMEONE?



How many of us have hurt others emotionally, psychologically or physically with or without intentions? Being apologetic to a person shows that you have realized what you have done and wants to make amends if possible.

People due to their hypothetical ego often may not be ready to apologize.Some may often feel that what they are doing is right. These thoughts prevent a person from apologizing and later it may lead to serious repercussions.

We often forget ourselves in this busy world that we are too immersed in our works and don't care about our actions.  A person should find time to talk with himself or herself and rewind their whole day. Our conscience never lie to us and you can take your adults support too.

I would like to quote an example from my own life experiences. We often make a lot of friends in many apps like Whats App , Kik, Instagram etc where we know personally a very few of them. Feelings do not get expressed when you text or talk with people through electronic gadgets rather than talking and spending time with people. We often misjudge the attitude shown by people through social media and often do not give a chance to explain their situations. Being good enough for everybody is impossible but we might be the best for someone like our parents or soulmates who accepts the true side of our lives as it is.

Forgiving others and repenting about the mistakes you have done makes us not only great but more relieved too.
It's never late to approach the person you have hurt and repent your mistakes.You need not carry your mistakes wherever you go but you can definitely avoid such mistakes again by considering them as stepping stones to lead a new life.


                                                                                             -RITIKA KANAKARAJ(2ND BSc FND)

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