In Search of Success

We humans are in search of success from cradle to grave. Much of what we feel, act, express, work is a reflection of what others expect, think, feel, perceive about us. Thus, reviewing ourselves  to meet the expections and image of others has become a social model of  a competitive life towards achieving success in today's world. Where success has become a mixture of much complex emotional output given by an individual.

Most of those who fail to balance the equilibrium between others and themselves fail to succeed in accomplishing their goals in life. Thus, it is important for one to balance his personality keeping in account a balance approach towards TRUST, LOVE and UNDERSTANDING as these are the building block of a relationship. It is a relationship that binds a business, enterprise, personal life, social life  as applicable.
Let us then learn more about love, trust and understanding in order to build a better relationship for a successful output to meet our goals.

LOVE can only reach its highest potential when one is able to CARE. The more you care the better output of love you can see. It is important to accelerate the feeling of care by learning and exercising to be KIND towards oneself and others.

 TRUST being a very important factor in a relationship it can only be built by being TRUE. To express truth one has to accelerate his level of HONESTY towards himself and others.

UNDERSTANDING has been very hard for one to review due to a persons own anger, greed, desire, hate, ego, expectations,....etc. Thus, an understanding can only be achieved by once  willing attitude to SACRIFICE.  Sacrifice can only be accelerated if one exercises and learns to be CONCERNED. Thus, all these i.e, trust, love and understanding is a basic factor in a relationship as defined by ABDUL HAMEED KUNHI in his "Theory Of Relationship". Where he states that all these factors if balanced properly by individuals could lead to a harmonious relationship. He also states that for all these three factors to be clear and transparent in once expression, his COMMUNICATION plays a very vital role. A miscommunication between individuals has repeatedly shown a instability in once social life.

On reviewing the above, we can conclude that SUCCESS can be easily achieved if a relationship is managed and balanced properly keeping in mind a CLEAR and an HONEST mode of COMMUNICATION between TWO INDIVIDUALS.

- Ayshath Afreen K
   1st Bsc FND